Paper Wedding Bouquets

Wedding bouquets are traditionally made of beautifully arranged, gorgeous smelling fresh seasonal flowers. Over the years there have been many different styles and trends of bouquets, depending on the bride’s tastes and, of course, the availability of the flowers.

 

It is thought that brides originally carried a bouquet of flowers with her as she walked down the aisle, not to add to the beauty of the occasion, but simply to hide her smell! Hygiene in the middle ages certainly wasn’t the best, with baths being a luxury for most. What better way to hide the odour than with a bunch of fragrant fresh flowers.

 

 

 

 

But things have changed! (Thank goodness) And there are lots of new alternatives appearing on the scene. My favourite….. paper bouquets.

 

How inspirational are these paper bouquets? All a little bit quirky, but they are all very symbolic. One of them is made of comic book pages of the grooms favourite superhero, another is made of pages of the couple’s favourite passages, and then there is the one made from sheet music….. they are all so special – they are all so unique.

 

 

 

So when you are thinking of how you can put your own special stamp on your wedding, keep an open mind, because the results can be stunning, and I’m sure the end results for these brides was very rewarding.

 

 

 

Picaluna Funerals

 

Every ceremony should be unique as the people it celebrates. This is why I became a Celebrant.

WHEN Greg Inglis lost his mother a few years ago, his family ended up with a “cookie cutter”, rushed ceremony that didn’t reflect her life or personality.

If he had his time again, Mr Inglis said he would have instead planned a cremation for his mother, followed by a memorial service at Randwick Racecourse.

“She loved the races — it was our thing,” he said. “The ceremony we had didn’t represent what mum was about.”

It was this unsatisfying experience that prompted Mr Inglis to launch Picaluna along with business partner Chris Hancock in a bid to shake up the lucrative $1.1 billion Australian funeral industry.

Picaluna has been described as “Uber for funerals” — but Mr Inglis said it’s all about helping people farewell their loved ones in a more personal, meaningful and transparent way.

Picaluna helps people take control of planning a funeral by putting them in touch with celebrants, coffin suppliers, florists, venues and any other service providers they need.

It means people can bypass traditional funeral directors and save money on big-ticket items like coffins, as well as allowing them to plan more personal ceremonies that better reflect their loved one’s life.

At the core of the business is Picaluna’s team of celebrants — people who will sit down with families, learn about the person they’ve lost and the life they lived, and plan a service accordingly.

“Funerals aren’t for the person who died, they’re really for the people left behind,” Mr Inglis said.

“You’re not pushed for time — the celebrant will sit down with you and say, ‘tell me about your grandad. Oh, he was a surf lifesaver? Let’s hold the service in his surf lifesaving club on the beach with all his mates’ — the celebrants have total creative input, and in our model the funeral directors stay out of the way.

“There are a lot of really good people working in the industry — we’re not about bashing the industry.

“But they’ve got a captured market of people who are very emotionally vulnerable and some are not doing the right thing by families.”

Instead, Mr Inglis said he wanted to re-educate both the industry and the general public.

“We don’t want to destroy the industry, we just want the industry to change the way they do things. There’s enough for all of us,” he said.

“Around 40 per cent of ceremonies are held in crematoriums or cemetery chapels and I’d like to see none because I don’t think it’s very authentic … I’d like to see more held at the family home, because that’s a more natural place, or at beaches, parks or surf lifesaving clubs.

“People don’t realise what they can do. I want to see the end of the cookie cutter approach to funerals. Not everyone has to be dressed in black — you can have karaoke at a rooftop bar if you want.”

Mr Inglis, who has a background in sales, never thought he’d end up working in the funeral industry — but he said it was one of the most rewarding jobs imaginable.

“As sad as funerals are, there’s also so much satisfaction,” he said.

“We’ve had families tell us [a relative’s funeral] was the best day of their lives, and that gives us a lot of joy.”

Picaluna has organised 75 funerals since launching last October, and donates 10 per cent of the cost of each funeral to a charity of the family’s choice.

The company is also hoping to trial “mini crowd-funding” campaigns in future, which would encourage the deceased person’s family and friends to donate to a special cause which would then “become that person’s legacy”.

Mr Inglis said funerals were evolving, with around 70 per cent of us now opting for cremations.

He said funerals were becoming less religious and formal, and that families were keeping their loved one’s body at home for longer as part of the grieving process.

He said more and more people were choosing cardboard coffins, which mourners could then decorate at the service, as well as “ash kits” which turned a person’s ashes into fertile matter, allowing them to be sprinkled outdoors around plants and trees.

If you would like more information on how you can celebrate the lives of your loved ones, please do not hesitate to contact me.

 

Every ceremony should be unique as the people it celebrates.

 

This story is courtesy of Alexis Carey.

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Rainbows Reign in Australia Today

Congratulations to the LGBTQI communities of Australia!

Today, parliament voted YES to pass the bill for same-sex marriages in Australia and to recognise all overseas marriages.

As of Saturday 9th December 2017, ‘Notice of Intended Marriage’ forms are able to be completed by those in same-sex relationships, ready for weddings starting on the 9th January, 2018.

I AM SO EXCITED! I wonder who will be my first same-sex couple?

It’s a great day for Marriage Equality and a day that will go down in Australian history.

Love is Love.

XX Ruth

Why not have your Grandma as your Flower Girl?

This is just too adorable.

I can only imagine how proud parents and grandparents must feel as they watch the younger generations of their families getting married.

More and more of my clients are making sure that their parents are involved in their weddings at some stage, with fathers doing readings in the ceremonies to mothers acting as legal witnesses.

But this wedding in America has topped it all off, with one amazing bride having her Grandma acting as her Flower Girl, and it’s quite obvious that she is loving every minute of it.

Don’t ever be afraid to think outside of the box. Their is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ in modern wedding ceremonies, there is just ‘what makes us feel warm and fuzzy inside’.

 

 

Southern Highlands Wedding Fair

I’m off to the Highlands for a Fair!

I am so excited about this event! I am looking forward to meeting new clients and suppliers and also to see the new trends in the wedding industry.

If you are newly engaged or your nuptials are fast approaching, come down to Bradman Oval in Bowral between 10am to 3pm. The fair will show off the best suppliers and vendors that the Southern Highlands has to offer.

Wedding fairs are a great day out for your and your bridesmaids, or perhaps even the groom. Their will be live entertainment and fashion parades, with great prizes to be won!

Tickets are only $22 visit http://www.southernhighlandsweddingfair.com.au/ to get yours today!

Are Donuts the New Wedding Cake?

Looking for an alternative to traditional wedding cake? Why not have donuts? There are lots of variations of flavours and there are endless fun ways to display them….. and of course, they taste amazing!!

 

Spooktacular Wedding Ideas

Happy Halloween ! Who would have thought a Halloween themed wedding could look so good?

Celebrate your own special moments in your own special style…. whatever that may be 😊

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Photos courtesy of Todd Nichols Photography

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